Wednesday, October 13, 2010
BLOWIN STEAM BOUT DONALD
Ya know there are alotta things that seem ta get under my skin more so now as I age than b4 then again perhaps its the other way around. I dunno. Today I had a perty fucked up shitty, very annoyed day. Tho it didn't start out that way at all. In fact I had a great nights rest & slept like a real champ. My day even started out great. Lou, my infant son, & I got up spent some time together, took a shower together, got dressed & took my friend Jimmy's mom, Trish ta run some errands. She treated us ta a really nice lunch at Cafe Verona located off tha Independence Square. We dropped her off bk home @ 3pm & just as we were pullin out of her drive way, that's about tha time my day started ta take a real shit turn! Big Mamma called ta tell me my girls were home from school *& wanted ta know where I was at. Ok cool no big deal here's where Im at & I'm on my way now should be there in about 20mins. Then I get 2 calls from the front office, which I didn't answer. Then I get a call from their dad. I told him where I was at & yes I was aware of tha girls bein home from school now & was on my way, will be there in about 20mins er less, on my way now. As soon as I pulled up he reminded me tha girls were locked out of tha house & had no key. I told him yes i was aware of that & tha fact that I had told them after i had their 3rd key made that I wasn't gonna have another one made, if they lost it, then they were gonna be s.o.l. I stressed the importance to them of makin sure tha 3rd one was not lost! & they of course rest assured me it wouldn't be. Well they lost it, therefore they're s.o.l. until they find one of tha missing 3. He tried talkin me into allowing him to have a copy made for them. I told him no, bcuz all that would do is keep them from taking accountability for their lack of responsability. About 10mins after i unlocked tha door Landon got home. During which time their father had asked me ta find his swim trunks for him so he could take them all out ta Coco keys. Not a problem, I found those rt off tha bat. Tha girls started fighting over swim suits. KK started throwin a fit about her one piece. I offered her ta wear one of my 2 piece bottoms & she refused bcuz none of them were a perfect match to her 2 piece top. I tried my absolute best to accomodate her & make her happy tho it was all done to no avail. Finally they all got out tha door. Tho just b4 they did I started receivin text messages from Lou's father. Needless ta say, they really started pissin me off!
Don't get me wrong, I strongly believe in bein civil to tha best of your ability with an x, especially if you share a child together. If yer able to carry on a perty decent if not some what of a close relationship with that person, then great. HOWEVER; considering the circumstances that may have been tha cause of the break up I'd be perty leary on some things shared w that person.
Here's an example;
If ya leave yer partner fer someone else & if your partner was a woman & she just found out that she was pregnant w your child & ya do yer x partner dirty in more ways than one! THEN DON"T GO BOO HOOING TO HER ABOUT YER LIFE!! due to all of the choices in which you have made!! ESPECIALLY if you kept her pregnancy secret from EVERYONE around you, including your parents, your new gf & all of your friends & then didn't have ANYTHING ta do with tha pregnancy in any way what so ever, not ta mention being non compliant w any & all doctors involved with the care of the pregnancy or tha child before or after birth!! & avoided participating in a paternity test for several months after the baby was born, when she & tha child had their part done immediately after delivery!! Let's not forget tha fact that a text was sent to her saying, "I don't want to have anything to do with it. I want proof! even then I'm going to sign all over to you" while this child is in the hospital knocking on deaths door just 7days after being born! & tha fact you didn't set eyes on the child until it was 10 months of age! fer tha first time! & here tha child is 15months of age & you've only seen tha child a total of 8 times since birth!! BY YOUR CHOICE & NOT THA MOTHERS!!
HOW DARE YOU!! BOO HOO 2 HER about your now x girlfriend that you left her for or about your psychiotic outta control daughter, or yer best friend who just committed suicide or your parents who are 89 yrs of age & are not doing well & better yet HOW FUCKING DARE YOU tell her you don't like the fact you're not there for your child as much as you'd like to be!! But yet you don't wanna do anything about changing it. When she lost her mother at the young age of 50, last yr, WHILE SHE WAS PREGNANT W YOUR CHILD!! SHE WAS THE ONE TAKING CARE OF HER OWN MOTHER CUZ NOBODY ELSE COULD & SHE WAS PREGNAT WHEN SHE HAD TO BURY HER!! & IT WAS HER SISTER/ BEST FRIEND WHO STOOD BY HER SIDE ALL THROUGH OUT HER PREGNANCY, IT WAS HER SISTER/ BEST FRIEND WHO WAS THERE IN THE DELIVERY ROOM WHILE SHE GAVE BIRTH TO YOUR CHILD. IT WAS SHE WHO HAD TO BURY HER GRANDMOTHER JUST A FEW MONTHS LATER!! IT WAS SHE WHO HAD TO BURY HER SISTER/ BEST FRIEND JUST 2 DAYS AFTER YOUR CHILDS FIRST BIRTHDAY. WHEN HER SISTER/ BEST FRIEND WAS ONLY 32 & HAD A MASSIVE HEART ATTACK!! IT WAS SHE WHO HAD LOST HER DAD AT THE AGE OF 8 YEARS!! IT WAS SHE WHO HAD TO FORK OUT A SHIT LOAD OF MONEY TO COVER THE FUNNERAL EXPENSES OF ALL OF HER LOVED ONES IN LESS THAN 2 YEARS!! IT WAS SHE WHO HAS PAID HER WAY THROUGH COLLEGE! IT WAS SHE WHO STOOD BY YOUR SONS SIDE WHILE HE WAS WALKING NEXT TO DEATH! IT IS SHE WHO IS RAISING 4 CHILDREN ALL ON HER OWN! WHO PAYS HER OWN BILLS! WHO FIXES HER OWN CAR WHEN IN NEED WITH NOBODY'S HELP! WHO HAS TAKEN YOUR CHILD TO THE DOCTORS & ER WHEN NEEDED! WHO WAKES UP & CARES FOR YOUR CHILD ALL HRS OF THE NIGHT!!
HOW FUCKIN DARE YOU!!! CALL HER BOO HOOING ABOUT YOU NEVER BEING ABLE TO GET AHEAD OR CAUGHT UP ON YOUR BILLS!! WHEN YOU'RE 40YRS OLD, LIVING WITH YOUR PARENTS WHO ARE STILL ALIVE!! WHO PAYS FOR YOUR DAUGHTERS EXPENSES, NEEDS & NECCESSATIES!! YET DON'T WANNA HAVE ANYTHING TA DO WITH YOUR SON, NOR DO THEY EVER WANT TO, WHOM HAVE TOLD YOU TO KEEP AWAY FROM THEM!! OR ABOUT YOUR FUCKIN X GIRLFRIEND WHOM YOU, MISS TREMENDOUSLY, BUT COULDN'T STAND TO LIVE WITH DUE TO HER INSECURITY ISSUES! & HOW FUCKING DARE YOU SIT THERE & BOO HOO ABOUT YOU NOT BEING ABLE TO BE THERE FOR YOUR SON AS MUCH AS YOU'D LIKE TO BE. YET YOU STILL HAVE NO WAY OF CHANGING THAT!! WHEN SHE TOLD YOU THE DOOR WOULD ALWAYS BE OPENED TO YOU & YOUR SON!!
ALL OF THE SHIT YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH IS ABSO FUCKING LUTELY NOTHING COMPARED TO WHAT SHE HAS BEEN THROUGH OR WHAT YOU HAVE PUT HER THROUGH!! SO UNLESS YOU'VE STEPPED FOOT IN HER SHOES,...SHUT THA FUCK UP!! STOP YOUR PISSY ASS WINING ABOUT HOW SHITTY YOU THINK YOUR LIFE IS! YOU HAVEN'T EVEN CROSSED THE SAME PEBBLES IN WHICH SHE HAS, LET ALONE WALKED A FOOT IN HER PATH!
Don't get me wrong, I strongly believe in bein civil to tha best of your ability with an x, especially if you share a child together. If yer able to carry on a perty decent if not some what of a close relationship with that person, then great. HOWEVER; considering the circumstances that may have been tha cause of the break up I'd be perty leary on some things shared w that person.
Here's an example;
If ya leave yer partner fer someone else & if your partner was a woman & she just found out that she was pregnant w your child & ya do yer x partner dirty in more ways than one! THEN DON"T GO BOO HOOING TO HER ABOUT YER LIFE!! due to all of the choices in which you have made!! ESPECIALLY if you kept her pregnancy secret from EVERYONE around you, including your parents, your new gf & all of your friends & then didn't have ANYTHING ta do with tha pregnancy in any way what so ever, not ta mention being non compliant w any & all doctors involved with the care of the pregnancy or tha child before or after birth!! & avoided participating in a paternity test for several months after the baby was born, when she & tha child had their part done immediately after delivery!! Let's not forget tha fact that a text was sent to her saying, "I don't want to have anything to do with it. I want proof! even then I'm going to sign all over to you" while this child is in the hospital knocking on deaths door just 7days after being born! & tha fact you didn't set eyes on the child until it was 10 months of age! fer tha first time! & here tha child is 15months of age & you've only seen tha child a total of 8 times since birth!! BY YOUR CHOICE & NOT THA MOTHERS!!
HOW DARE YOU!! BOO HOO 2 HER about your now x girlfriend that you left her for or about your psychiotic outta control daughter, or yer best friend who just committed suicide or your parents who are 89 yrs of age & are not doing well & better yet HOW FUCKING DARE YOU tell her you don't like the fact you're not there for your child as much as you'd like to be!! But yet you don't wanna do anything about changing it. When she lost her mother at the young age of 50, last yr, WHILE SHE WAS PREGNANT W YOUR CHILD!! SHE WAS THE ONE TAKING CARE OF HER OWN MOTHER CUZ NOBODY ELSE COULD & SHE WAS PREGNAT WHEN SHE HAD TO BURY HER!! & IT WAS HER SISTER/ BEST FRIEND WHO STOOD BY HER SIDE ALL THROUGH OUT HER PREGNANCY, IT WAS HER SISTER/ BEST FRIEND WHO WAS THERE IN THE DELIVERY ROOM WHILE SHE GAVE BIRTH TO YOUR CHILD. IT WAS SHE WHO HAD TO BURY HER GRANDMOTHER JUST A FEW MONTHS LATER!! IT WAS SHE WHO HAD TO BURY HER SISTER/ BEST FRIEND JUST 2 DAYS AFTER YOUR CHILDS FIRST BIRTHDAY. WHEN HER SISTER/ BEST FRIEND WAS ONLY 32 & HAD A MASSIVE HEART ATTACK!! IT WAS SHE WHO HAD LOST HER DAD AT THE AGE OF 8 YEARS!! IT WAS SHE WHO HAD TO FORK OUT A SHIT LOAD OF MONEY TO COVER THE FUNNERAL EXPENSES OF ALL OF HER LOVED ONES IN LESS THAN 2 YEARS!! IT WAS SHE WHO HAS PAID HER WAY THROUGH COLLEGE! IT WAS SHE WHO STOOD BY YOUR SONS SIDE WHILE HE WAS WALKING NEXT TO DEATH! IT IS SHE WHO IS RAISING 4 CHILDREN ALL ON HER OWN! WHO PAYS HER OWN BILLS! WHO FIXES HER OWN CAR WHEN IN NEED WITH NOBODY'S HELP! WHO HAS TAKEN YOUR CHILD TO THE DOCTORS & ER WHEN NEEDED! WHO WAKES UP & CARES FOR YOUR CHILD ALL HRS OF THE NIGHT!!
HOW FUCKIN DARE YOU!!! CALL HER BOO HOOING ABOUT YOU NEVER BEING ABLE TO GET AHEAD OR CAUGHT UP ON YOUR BILLS!! WHEN YOU'RE 40YRS OLD, LIVING WITH YOUR PARENTS WHO ARE STILL ALIVE!! WHO PAYS FOR YOUR DAUGHTERS EXPENSES, NEEDS & NECCESSATIES!! YET DON'T WANNA HAVE ANYTHING TA DO WITH YOUR SON, NOR DO THEY EVER WANT TO, WHOM HAVE TOLD YOU TO KEEP AWAY FROM THEM!! OR ABOUT YOUR FUCKIN X GIRLFRIEND WHOM YOU, MISS TREMENDOUSLY, BUT COULDN'T STAND TO LIVE WITH DUE TO HER INSECURITY ISSUES! & HOW FUCKING DARE YOU SIT THERE & BOO HOO ABOUT YOU NOT BEING ABLE TO BE THERE FOR YOUR SON AS MUCH AS YOU'D LIKE TO BE. YET YOU STILL HAVE NO WAY OF CHANGING THAT!! WHEN SHE TOLD YOU THE DOOR WOULD ALWAYS BE OPENED TO YOU & YOUR SON!!
ALL OF THE SHIT YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH IS ABSO FUCKING LUTELY NOTHING COMPARED TO WHAT SHE HAS BEEN THROUGH OR WHAT YOU HAVE PUT HER THROUGH!! SO UNLESS YOU'VE STEPPED FOOT IN HER SHOES,...SHUT THA FUCK UP!! STOP YOUR PISSY ASS WINING ABOUT HOW SHITTY YOU THINK YOUR LIFE IS! YOU HAVEN'T EVEN CROSSED THE SAME PEBBLES IN WHICH SHE HAS, LET ALONE WALKED A FOOT IN HER PATH!
